The Art of Saying No—How To Actually Protect Your Energy Without Guilt
- Hilda Yechiel
- Apr 7
- 2 min read
Have you ever said yes to something when you really wanted to say no? Maybe it was an extra work commitment, a social event you didn’t have the energy for, or a favor that drained your time.
If so, you’re not alone. Many high-achievers and busy professionals struggle with setting boundaries, fearing they’ll disappoint others or seem unhelpful. But here’s the truth: Saying no is not selfish—it’s self-respect.
Why “No” is a Complete Sentence
Your energy is one of your most valuable resources, and every time you say yes to something that doesn’t align with your priorities, you’re saying no to something that does.
Think of your energy like a bank account. Each time you overextend yourself, you’re withdrawing from that account. Without careful management, you’ll be running on empty.
But when you learn to protect your energy, you:✔ Stay focused on what truly matters.✔ Reduce stress and overwhelm.✔ Show up fully for the commitments that deserve your best.
3 Ways to Say No with Confidence
1️⃣ Be Clear and Direct
Instead of: “I’ll see if I can fit it in.”
Say: “I appreciate the opportunity, but I won’t be able to commit to that right now.”
2️⃣ Offer an Alternative (If You Want To)
Instead of: “I can’t help you with that.”
Say: “I won’t be able to take this on, but I can recommend someone who might be able to.”
3️⃣ Use the “Pause Rule”
Before automatically saying yes, give yourself time to think. Try responding with:“Let me check my schedule and get back to you.”
This gives you space to evaluate whether the commitment aligns with your priorities.
Your Challenge for This Week
Identify one area in your life where you need stronger boundaries. Maybe it’s work, or personal time. Practice saying no to something that doesn’t serve you—and notice how it frees up space and energy for what truly matters.
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I am Hilda Yechiel
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Hilda Yechiel
Specializes in coaching professionals to set clear boundaries and improve communication, transforming stress into success both at work and home. She has helped 50+ women.
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